My toy boy lover is abusive and blames me for his porn habit

My toy boy lover is abusive and blames me for his porn habit

DEAR DEIDRE: MY toy boy lover is abusive and even blames me for his porn habit. I know I’m not the problem but sometimes I feel like I’m going mad. It’s making me feel really depressed.  I’m 49 and he’s 38. We’ve been together for three years. He has a lovely side. He can be … Read more

Never mind sex, I can’t even get a hug from my husband

Never mind sex, I can’t even get a hug from my husband

DEAR DEIDRE: NEVER mind sex, I can’t even get a hug from my husband.   I’ve tried everything to get the spark back, but he isn’t interested. I feel like all I am to him is a cook and cleaner. We’ve been married for seven years. I’m 42 and he’s 47. Our sex life was fine … Read more

I cheated on a paternity test to save my relationship, now I need to know the truth

I cheated on a paternity test to save my relationship, now I need to know the truth

DEAR DEIDRE: REGRETFULLY, I cheated on a paternity test to save my relationship. But now I want to know if I’m a dad. I’m 26. A few years ago, I had a brief relationship with a woman who I met at a party. After that ended, I tried online dating and met my perfect woman. … Read more

I’ve started admiring other men’s bodies at the pool and it makes me wonder if I’m gay

I've started admiring other men's bodies at the pool and it makes me wonder if I'm gay

I’ve started admiring other men’s bodies at the pool and it makes me wonder if I’m gay …C0NTINUE READING HERE >>> DEAR DEIDRE: OVER the past few years, I’ve started finding other men very attractive despite the fact I have only ever had relationships with women. Could I be gay or bisexual, and not have … Read more

My gym trainer is getting suggestive with me and even gave me a sex toy

My gym trainer is getting suggestive with me and even gave me a sex toy

My gym trainer is getting suggestive with me and even gave me a sex toy …C0NTINUE READING HERE >>> DEAR DEIDRE: THE new personal trainer I have is getting full-on and suggestive with me, and I’m not sure if I like it. I do find him attractive, and we’ve kissed, but he’s married and I’m … Read more

My wife had an affair but is manipulating the situation to make it seem like it’s my fault

My wife had an affair but is manipulating the situation to make it seem like it's my fault

My wife had an affair but is manipulating the situation to make it seem like it’s my fault …C0NTINUE READING HERE >>> DEAR DEIDRE: MY wife had an affair and somehow it seems it is my fault. She’s a master at gaslighting and manipulation. We’re both approaching 40 and have been married for ten years. … Read more

I don’t know whether to stick with safe husband or amazing sex-addict lover

I don't know whether to stick with safe husband or amazing sex-addict lover

I don’t know whether to stick with safe husband or amazing sex-addict lover …C0NTINUE READING HERE >>> DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVE met the most incredible man. He is the best lover, is considerate, adventurous and has an exciting life. I am ready to throw in my steady but boring married life for him, but there … Read more

My husband watched porn and wants to have rough sex – it is really turning me off

My husband watched porn and wants to have rough sex - it is really turning me off

My husband watched porn and wants to have rough sex – it is really turning me off …C0NTINUE READING HERE >>> DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband has started to want only rough, almost aggressive, sex and it’s turning me off completely. We’re in our thirties and have been married for eight years. At the beginning, I … Read more

My husband had sex with a prostitute days before our wedding – I don’t know if I can ever trust him again – The Scottish Sun

My husband had sex with a prostitute days before our wedding – I don’t know if I can ever trust him again – The Scottish Sun

My husband had sex with a prostitute days before our wedding – I don’t know if I can ever trust him again – The Scottish Sun …C0NTINUE READING HERE >>> DEAR DEIDRE: THE best man at my wedding got so drunk he let slip that my husband has cheated on me three times since we … Read more

My boyfriend broke up with me after a year because I’m ‘too old’ for him

My boyfriend broke up with me after a year because I'm 'too old' for him

My boyfriend broke up with me after a year because I’m ‘too old’ for him …C0NTINUE READING HERE >>> DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER a year together, my boyfriend broke up with me because I’m ‘too old’ for him. To add insult to injury, he told me he’d never thought of me as his proper girlfriend. I’m … Read more