Christmas is expensive and exhausting – I want to spend it alone

Christmas is expensive and exhausting - I want to spend it alone

DEAR DEIDRE: CHRISTMAS is filling me with dread.  I want to escape from it all and go somewhere alone to enjoy myself, instead of cooking and cleaning for everyone else. I’m 58 and my husband is 60. We have three grown-up children, who are coming home for the holiday period. I’m sick of… Christmas is … Read more

I cheated on a paternity test to save my relationship, now I need to know the truth

I cheated on a paternity test to save my relationship, now I need to know the truth

DEAR DEIDRE: REGRETFULLY, I cheated on a paternity test to save my relationship. But now I want to know if I’m a dad. I’m 26. A few years ago, I had a brief relationship with a woman who I met at a party. After that ended, I tried online dating and met my perfect woman. … Read more

I got home with the Christmas shopping just as my husband walked out the door

I got home with the Christmas shopping just as my husband walked out the door

DEAR DEIDRE: THE Christmas lights are up and the festive decorations out, but this time of year makes me feel so blue after my husband dropped a bombshell three days before Christmas last year. I’d just arrived home with all the food shopping to find him waiting in the kitchen with his bags packed.  To … Read more

I’ve started admiring other men’s bodies at the pool and it makes me wonder if I’m gay

I've started admiring other men's bodies at the pool and it makes me wonder if I'm gay

I’ve started admiring other men’s bodies at the pool and it makes me wonder if I’m gay …C0NTINUE READING HERE >>> DEAR DEIDRE: OVER the past few years, I’ve started finding other men very attractive despite the fact I have only ever had relationships with women. Could I be gay or bisexual, and not have … Read more

My gym trainer is getting suggestive with me and even gave me a sex toy

My gym trainer is getting suggestive with me and even gave me a sex toy

My gym trainer is getting suggestive with me and even gave me a sex toy …C0NTINUE READING HERE >>> DEAR DEIDRE: THE new personal trainer I have is getting full-on and suggestive with me, and I’m not sure if I like it. I do find him attractive, and we’ve kissed, but he’s married and I’m … Read more

My wife had an affair but is manipulating the situation to make it seem like it’s my fault

My wife had an affair but is manipulating the situation to make it seem like it's my fault

My wife had an affair but is manipulating the situation to make it seem like it’s my fault …C0NTINUE READING HERE >>> DEAR DEIDRE: MY wife had an affair and somehow it seems it is my fault. She’s a master at gaslighting and manipulation. We’re both approaching 40 and have been married for ten years. … Read more

My friend says my boyfriend is sleeping with an old woman from his canteen at work

My friend says my boyfriend is sleeping with an old woman from his canteen at work

My friend says my boyfriend is sleeping with an old woman from his canteen at work …C0NTINUE READING HERE >>> DEAR DEIDRE: A PAL told me that my boyfriend has been sleeping with an old woman from his canteen at work. It’s gross! I’m a female of 31 and my partner is 32. We have … Read more

I don’t know whether to stick with safe husband or amazing sex-addict lover

I don't know whether to stick with safe husband or amazing sex-addict lover

I don’t know whether to stick with safe husband or amazing sex-addict lover …C0NTINUE READING HERE >>> DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVE met the most incredible man. He is the best lover, is considerate, adventurous and has an exciting life. I am ready to throw in my steady but boring married life for him, but there … Read more

My husband watched porn and wants to have rough sex – it is really turning me off

My husband watched porn and wants to have rough sex - it is really turning me off

My husband watched porn and wants to have rough sex – it is really turning me off …C0NTINUE READING HERE >>> DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband has started to want only rough, almost aggressive, sex and it’s turning me off completely. We’re in our thirties and have been married for eight years. At the beginning, I … Read more